Finding your passion

So, my parents were amazing. They never truly stifled any ambition of mine. They also didn’t exactly encourage through facilitating experiences. I want to provide for my little man, what I didn’t get. This is a huge reason why I’m getting an engineering degree. For the record, one of the hardest (if not hardest) things…

Quite a Conundrum

So, I recall being told: “Remember what you were passionate about when you were a child and try to do that.” I wanted to be a “professional sports star,” and I don’t think that ever changed. I’ve played soccer nearly my whole life. I was pretty darn good too. I spent most of my teenage…

A Woe.

Yesterday, I drive 25 minutes to go pick up my son from his mother’s house. He had said he wanted to spend the night with me. “Is it just because he doesn’t want to go to school?” I asked. His mom said she asked him and he told her he would spend the night even…

Played soccer and baseball and catch with my son the other night. Played with water balloons with the little guy the next day. He also took a shower and enjoyed it. In the middle of the shower, he calls for me. I come and he says “Daddy, I love you… but when is Mommy coming…

Remember…

The thought manifests as the word. The word manifests as the deed. The deed develops into habit. And the habit hardens into character. So watch the thought and its ways with care. And let it spring from love born out of concern for all beings.” Remember this parents, as you teach your kids to think.

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The Entrepreneurial Parent

So, my career path right now is looking to fork between working at a corporation, or being an entrepreneur. Luckily, I have some time to decide, so I currently prepare for both. As an entrepreneur, one of my most used assetts is Mixergy.com. If you’re considering entrepreneurialism or are already taking the path, check out…

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Abundance

I’m a prevalent visitor of the entrepreneur site, Mixergy.com. The first fifteen minutes of a recent interview really resonated with me, and my current “parenting beliefs.” Before my son blessed my life, I knew I wanted to be a parent dedicated to truth and accountability – setting an example for my children. The interviewee, Ido…

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Justice for Quinten

I read this article about a week ago. It’s very emotional and can be hard to read. There’s not much to say about this… It speaks for itself. Very sobering. Makes you wonder, What can I do to help keep this from every happening again? 22YD

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Long Distance Relationship

I’m not talking about a spouse or girlfriend or boyfriend. I’m talking about being away from your child. It’s not easy. But my #1 rule of thumb is, call them every day. And even that’s not easy. Firstly, it takes the will to dedicate to making it a habit to call your child. Whether it’s…

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Break Them.

Break your bad habits, else your children will suffer. When I learned I was going to be a father, at age 17, I decided I should break some bad habits: Eating nothing but junk, sleeping the entire day away, some very typical teenage habits. Over the next couple of years, I’ve learned how to motivate…

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” Uno, dos, tres…”

I just want to share a proud moment: I was talking with my son over the phone last night, after soccer, and I asked what he learned at school that day. He said he didn’t remember, and his mom whispered a reminder. He started, “Uno… Dos …. Tres….” He was getting shy, so I helped,…

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Sobering..

So, I’m not sure how many of you parents out there do this. I feel a bit alienated right now, thinking that I could be one of the few. Some of you may think I’m insane but I feel that this idea is worth a mention. Bare with me now. This isn’t the easiest thought…

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Black Holes > Football

Saturday was game-day. It was also homecoming for the school I attend. As per my average weekend activity, I was at my mother’s house, 2 hours away from school – 20 minutes from where my son permanently lives (with his mom). It was just him and me, hanging out, on this glorious game-day. “Hey, it’s…

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The Contest

“Do you know what time it is?” “Ummm…” “I think it’s about time for a contest, little man. Don’t you?” “Uhhhhhhh………. OH!” “Haha, you ready? One, two…” “Three! Go!” My son shoots off to our room and I hurry to mine. A couple minutes later, my son emerges – fully dressed – the victor. “Yay!…

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Making it Home

A Master Sergeant, and Highway Patrolman came to speak at my office, promoting driver safety by making the right choices on the road. He had an inspiring presentation set up and it made me realize the importance of the decisions we make each day.The patrolman mentioned how thankful us parents are when our teenagers make…

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I Want My Kid to Be a Hacker

Ever heard of “Hackschooling?” I just did. And it sounds amazing. I learned about Hackschooling through a TEDx video, Hackschooling Makes Me Happy, and instantly felt some extra excitement for our generations to come. Hackschooling is a new-agey way of educating our children. Logan LaPlante, the teenager presenting his perspective of Hackschooling in this video,…

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“Everything was Perfect.”

Recently, I posted an entry on Getting Over the Fear of Shots. Well, the other day, my son took his trip to the doctor to receive his physical and vaccinations. I received this message, from his mother: “He had his finger pricked for his physical and he got 3 shots. He hardly cried at all.…

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Getting Over the Fear of Shots

Preparing a child for getting stuck with a needle isn’t an easy feat. I’m currently going through this, as my son will be having vaccinations soon. I was talking to the little guy’s mother, over the phone, and she mentioned him getting shots. Well, he was near the phone, and immediately went into panic mode.…

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Necessary Vaccines

My son – just turning 4 – will be needing vaccinations soon. He’s not very excited to be pricked with needles but receiving vaccines are a necessary pain each child and parent must go through. Unfortunately, parents must endure witnessing their children go through pain to provide better health for their little ones. Here is…